there are really times that you misunderstand and get misunderstood. that time just comes when you'll disagree on certain topics, fight over who's right, debate on who has the better opinion.
times like these cannot be avoided. you just have to deal with them. you just have to get through them. they should not be avoided, nor be allowed to stay.
times like these should be considered as opportunities. Opportunities to understand each other better. there are things that you better grasp when you experience them first hand. words and stories are not enough to let you understand each other. being there will make it easier to understand. in being there, you learn how to deal with it, resolve it, get through it, though painfully.
so i'll gladly accept times like these. i'll choose it over not talking or minding petty misunderstandings. learning from mistakes is better than learning from preaching. lessons from mistakes tend to stick to your head stronger unlike those from just hearing them, wherein they can easily escape your mind.
3 comments:
di talaga maiiwasan na merong bagay na di kayo magkakasundo... pero ang importante pinag-uusapan nyo kung bakit ganun...pero syempre dapat tinatandaan mo para di na maulit...memory lapses... di ubrang reason yun :D
minsan, mas maganda naman yung may diskusyon eh... at least, may nalalaman kang iba sa kanya na minsan hindi mo nakikita... ;)
shempre... honey ko yan... kame yan... :D
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